Thursday, January 9, 2014

Saying goodbye


I am blogging about this not for sympathy, but because I print this blog into a book every year and this was a big event in our lives in 2013.  I wanted something special to remember this by.

We had to do one of the hardest things in our marriage recently.  We had to say goodbye to our "first dog child".  Waco became a part of our family in May of 2005 and she brought us so much happiness.  Every.single.day when I got home from teaching school, that dog and I headed off to go walking at the park in our neighborhood in Dallas.  Rain, sleet, snow or sunshine, we were at that park.  Then we moved to Amarillo in 2008 and she learned to brave her first cold winter here.  My dad built the best, warmest, insulated dog house for her that helped her through many winters.
 Then we welcomed Parker in 2009 and she welcomed him too.  From the beginning, she was so calm, patient and tolerant of having a little one around.  If we were outside at the park and someone she didn't know was out walking or just there, she ALWAYS positioned herself between Parker and that person.  She was so protective.  Never hurt a soul, but just stood in the way and made her presence known.

We don't know 100% why, but we think during her spay surgery when she was a pup, there was a nerve damaged that kept her from having full bladder control.  It was fine when we she was younger, but the older she got, the worse it became to where she wet everywhere, all the time.  It was no way for a dog to live.  She was having to stay outside too much and the winter is just too cold for that here.  She slept inside and every morning we woke up to her lying in her own urine.

So, on Christmas Eve morning, we brought her inside, cried our eyes out and said our goodbyes.  I didn't think Parker fully understood what was going on until I found him sitting with her on her dog bed, stroking her head and talking to her all about Heaven.  I cry just typing this.  We talk about her often and as the weather gets warmer and we start going to the park again…I will dearly miss that leash hooked onto the jogger and her so fearlessly leading the way.

We love you Waco Austin!  You were a good dog.


Waco was the cutest puppy ever.

She quickly became our baby.

She grew up at the ranch during the summers.

"Do YOU want to go on a walk??"

Always chasing something.

Looking nice for Halloween.

 She helped me teach science safety to my students when I taught school.

Cozy.

 Family pic.

We celebrated every birthday she had with hats and a bowl of ice cream.


So tender with baby Parker.

She came on every walk/run we went on.

She was always curious about what Parker had been eating.

She was well loved.

And well taken care of.

She loved to swim.

And she loved listening to Parker "read" her stories.

Buddies.

She tolerated a lot.

She loved to fish.

And relax with me in the pool.

She was worried when we introduced another little one to her but was always sweet to Sydney.

Waco, there is a hole in our family now.  You are missed so much!

Tuesday, January 7, 2014

Christmas 2013

Christmas was a fun and busy time this year!  Not only was it Sydney's first Christmas, it was the first time Parker was involved in things like a choir program and preschool Christmas pageant which made it even more special.  Among all the things we had going on, we made sure and talked A LOT about how we do all of these things to celebrate the birth of Jesus!

Parker's 4 year old choir sang one Sunday night.  He clearly did not like being in front of people.  He turned red and would NOT look up.  He is on the end looking away from everyone.

Bless his heart.

The preschool pageant was worse. He had a speaking part (everyone did) and he cried but pulled it together with the microphone in hand and said his part.  I cried too.  Again, bless his heart.  He is the one with the Santa hat...he sure was cute though and I was still so proud!

Christmas Eve day was spent with the Austin side of the family.  James's dad has three siblings, so they and all their kids and grandkids were there.  It was a large group even though we were missing some!
Emily, Me, Sydney and Meredith

I love my boy!!


Santa always comes and hands out presents to the kids.

We sing Christmas songs, read the Christmas story and all the kids put on a play.  It's a fun tradition.
Notice my child looking at the ground again.  He doesn't like all eyes on him nor does he do costumes.
Thankfully I don't have dreams of having my children in show business anyway!  ;)


He does excel in sports!  Anything with a ball he dominates.
He won the kids division of the basketball tournament.

It was all too much for little sis.

Then, late that night Santa came!!
We had a fun morning just our family of four playing with new toys, eating cinnamon rolls and cherishing the morning.

This boy wanted a Baylor football helmet and jersey so bad...Santa did good!

Sydney got her very first baby doll.  
My two littlest loves!

Then it was back together with family for the rest of the day!
James and I with the newly weds, Tripp and Molly.

Faith took such good care of Sydney, it was a nice break!

Mrs. Franklin, James's grandmother, just turned 94.  It was good to see her!
Sloan and Scarlett with Mrs. Franklin and Olivia.

Adelynn and Katherine

Sydney hanging out with her great-grandmother...aka: Meemo

Heartbreakers!

Sweet girl did so well being passed around all that day.

What a blessing to add Sydney to our family picture this year!

We ended the day at Jim and Ann's house with just us and Luke's family.  There were more stockings and presents to open.

This sums up Christmas day!  ;)

The next morning we were up and at 'em and drove to Dallas for Christmas with my family!
Parker talked for weeks about wanting to go ice skating.  So...we take him to the Galleria and he totally backed out.  We still had a lot of fun being there with my parents!

Parker and Sydney with great-grandparents Mema and Papa
We had a lovely family dinner and got to open presents with my family the night we got there.

Sydney and Dede

Parker had a blast with his cousins Ty and Leah!  

I love my siblings, Ryan and Lindsey.
Mom and dad babysat and we (with spouses/boyfriend) got to go out to dinner that night!

We ended the year with James turning 34 on the 30th!
Happy birthday babe!

Whew!!  I am tired!  We are back home, undecorated and enjoying the SLOW
pace of January!  Stay tuned...I will post my annual year in review soon!

Monday, January 6, 2014

8 months old

I'm really not ok with how fast Sydney is growing up.  What is it about the second child that goes by so fast??  On Dec. 18th, she turned 8 months old and gets cuter and more fun every single day!  I've said it before and I'll say it again, I LOVE having a girl, the clothes, the bows, the pink, love it!!  Watching sweet Parker interact more and more with her just warms my heart.  He loves playing in the floor with her and is such a good little entertainer!

At 8 months Sydney...
* is still a champ at eating sold foods.  She will eat ANYTHING I give her...so different from Parker!
* still nurses about every 4 hours
* takes a short morning nap and a long afternoon nap
* still wakes up crying at night, we are sleep training, again.
* rolls all over creation and can push up on her arms when on her tummy
* worked hard this month on two bottom teeth and they finally came through!!
* loves watching Parker and is starting to reach for his toys
* lights up when James walks through the door in the evenings
* "talks" to us by making a grunting sound with your mouth wide open





Sydney Kate, you are a doll!  We love watching you grow up and learn new things so quickly.  You were prayed for for so long...you were most definitely worth the wait.  What joy you bring us sweet girl!